Hey there.
It's been a while since I last posted on this forum. The last (and only) time, I was in the middle of making career decisions and was struggling. Now, a year later, I'm struggling again, for similar reasons.
I spend nearly every day just trying to get through the day, finding little to no satisfaction in anything. My performance at work is affected by my confidence, and vice versa - it is a vicious cycle that seems to plague me. I spend a lot of time breaking down or trying not to break down, or generally feeling angry and/or indifferent. Sometimes it feels like I cannot find a scrap of happiness and when I do, I have to cling desperately onto it because such a feeling might not come along again.
I don't have depression or anything like that. My moods are not random, but very definitely affected by my job. I work at a place that I hate, in a destructive, disorganised environment. My only reprieve is that the rest of the staff are actually really nice. But the work itself is horrible and I can hardly bear it. A lot of the time I don't even see the point in coming in because I feel as though I'm going to accomplish nothing.
I know this is somewhere I need to get out of. Technically I'm supposed to stay until the end of the year but I keep considering the idea of leaving at Easter instead. It's actually past the deadline for handing in notice, but I doubt this place would care, people leave all the time because it's so horrible there. I keep putting off making this decision, and any other important life decisions (such as what I'm going to do next year to make a living).
I'm 23 years old and am supposed to be an adult and do adult-y things like making adult decisions, but I can't seem to live the adult life. I'm horrible at it and feel as though I'm letting people down, especially my family, who thought I was becoming independent having a job etc.