Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:Hamming wrote:But then I will not be cool, and will be gay in their eyes. I want to be cool.
Oh, well then you definitely should get married as that proves to others you are cool and not gay
And don’t worry that over 50% of marriages end in divorce and many people in marriages are miserable...because that must be cool too.
Now, in order to find a suitable wife you need to find a woman that also just wants to marry so as to look cool and doesn’t want to be accused of being a lesbian or a spinster. And make sure she wants to have children to look cool, because all the other women are having babies. That is a great question you can ask, to see if she is jealous of other women that have children. If she is not jealous of other women, don’t date her.
sounds good
but seriously I am afraid of something being too late. What if I later want to have children and I am too old and regret that I did not marry any girl? I could have child but if I am starting a child at 35+ years old, then there is a risk that he will have down syndrome. One guy said there is also chance that child will be genius, but I heard first time it.
One friend told me she knows a man who made his child being 60 years old with 35 year old woman and child is healthy. So there is a chance.
Of course I need to be cool by the 60 with lot of cash to get 35 year old woman, but thats different story.