Ok I get that as a potential concern, their closeness. But I'm still reacting 'so what?', when it comes down to it. It sounds like the girl (you are into) remained somewhat objective, ie a good friend to your ex. I'd ask myself this: If they really are best buddies, wouldnt they want the other to be as happy as they can be?studentofthegame wrote:Therein is the problem as i perceive it; their closeness. This girl has been involved in intimate discussions about our relationship, my ex has trusted her to be the person she confides in.
I dont see a betrayal... you think your ex will think it an act of betrayal (by her friend), is that it?