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Re: Getting obsessed with girls/women

At 29? Plenty of men marry for the first time in their 40s and 50s. There's no biological clock for the male of the species. That sounds very... bitter.. Lol. He didn't mean the biological clock, it's not that his time's up, its that he feels like it's hopeless/pointless at this point. I've been th...
by n01
Mon Dec 30, 2019 4:46 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Getting obsessed with girls/women
Replies: 11
Views: 6838

Re: Ghosted. Next steps?

calvinTO wrote:"You knew it would fail!".
That's curious. What failed? Could it have been highly offensive?
by n01
Mon Dec 30, 2019 4:11 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Ghosted. Next steps?
Replies: 4
Views: 2563

Re: A woman sent me a Christmas card with her photo on it

Perhaps just her daughter?? Like how lots of people like to send cards with their kids' pictures on. Was the dessert a christmas pudding per chance?!
by n01
Mon Dec 30, 2019 4:06 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: A woman sent me a Christmas card with her photo on it
Replies: 5
Views: 3051

Re: Ask her out?

Then she said that she's still recovering from her breakup (3 yr rel.) and wont be dating for a while. It sounds like she really went through a rough time. So she made it very clear to me that any interaction we have wont be a romantic one and not to wait for her. So this ok. You can continue to wo...
by n01
Mon Aug 27, 2018 1:50 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Ask her out?
Replies: 9
Views: 3339

Re: Should we believe in God?

Yea, I understand that books are written by human. Actally I thought those books were written by Jesus or smth like that. But now I heard those are updated, but Jesus does not go on earth and do not tell what to write. It is really not understandable. If this is all fake, why so many people believe...
by n01
Mon Aug 27, 2018 1:18 am
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Should we believe in God?
Replies: 66
Views: 11809

Re: Practicing Communication Skills

Has mustafa been banned?... his name doesnt link and no post count or link
by n01
Thu Aug 09, 2018 10:49 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Practicing Communication Skills
Replies: 55
Views: 9495

Re: I need some help.

Maybe you're able to smell disease. That is possible (and maybe it smells like sh*t to you). Dogs can smell cancer. I remember reading about a person in scotland who can smell dementia (sometimes years before it shows up on medical tests later on). She said it was an unpleasant smell.
by n01
Thu Aug 09, 2018 10:41 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: I need some help.
Replies: 3
Views: 1594

Re: forbidden relationship

Therein is the problem as i perceive it; their closeness. This girl has been involved in intimate discussions about our relationship, my ex has trusted her to be the person she confides in. Ok I get that as a potential concern, their closeness. But I'm still reacting 'so what?', when it comes down ...
by n01
Thu Jul 19, 2018 12:19 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: forbidden relationship
Replies: 22
Views: 5608

Re: forbidden relationship

I understand that you think that, but why? This is an assumption on your part about how someone else sees it. Why do you think it jeopardizes their friendship when the relationship with your ex is over? It's as though you believe you / your ex still have dibs on each other. You don't. Or rather, you...
by n01
Thu Jul 19, 2018 9:41 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: forbidden relationship
Replies: 22
Views: 5608

Re: forbidden relationship

I don't see what difference it makes to you that the girl is your ex's friend. So what if you HAD been in a "serious relationship with one of her very good friends"? That's over. How does it complicate things now? Unless you mean on a practical level of if this girl hangs out a lot with yo...
by n01
Thu Jul 19, 2018 12:53 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: forbidden relationship
Replies: 22
Views: 5608

Re: In disbelief

See how it goes then. Sounds like progress. You (both) had some crossed wires there. Withdrawal is a common response style to interpersonal conflict though. If you really cannot control your emotions at all at that point then you need to manage that in a way that your partner can at least have an un...
by n01
Mon Jul 16, 2018 10:14 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: In disbelief
Replies: 12
Views: 3796

Re: unable to love

>I don't want anything. That's a lie. You don't want pain. You don't want to be isolated all your life, sharing nothing. You don't want your life to be meaningless. There are countless things that you have a preference for over some worse alternative for your experience of living. So be honest about...
by n01
Mon Jul 16, 2018 9:37 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: unable to love
Replies: 7
Views: 2635

Re: Seeking Guidance on Boundaries

I don't want to be "friends" with her as I know I'll never trust her and she hasn't given me any reason to. I would like for us to be on good terms though, for my wife's sake, for her sake and mine in terms of resolving a bad situation but that's it.. If all you want to be is on 'good ter...
by n01
Mon Jul 16, 2018 3:28 pm
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Seeking Guidance on Boundaries
Replies: 10
Views: 3456

Re: In disbelief

She says that I was extremely moody...She flips out and says she wants to take and break and not see each other anymore. =the penultimate straw? The next day she texted me if I wanted to talk. I didn't text her back. The following day she texts me and says that we are broken up sense I ignored her....
by n01
Sun Jul 15, 2018 2:08 am
 
Forum: Relationships
Topic: In disbelief
Replies: 12
Views: 3796

Re: Feeling guilty for being depressed: endless cycle

Who expects you to be a happy ray of sunshine? What is more important to you - their expectations, or your well-being? How come you can't talk to your bf... what's the point in having a bf if you feel lonely because you can't share the things that mean most to you and trouble you? Is eating lunch in...
by n01
Sat Jul 07, 2018 2:10 am
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Feeling guilty for being depressed: endless cycle
Replies: 6
Views: 2978
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