Hi, can you help me please gang; I'm having a panic attack now so forgive my diction and spelling.
Two years ago I fell in love with someone......despite being married.....and despite this woman being my Wife's best friend. I'm not sure if it was stupidity or Genetic Sexual attraction; probably the former. Suffice to say, it ended badly, and with this woman living 20 miles away I have had nothing to do with her for two years and was starting to rebuild my life (after a fashion). Rather curiously, to the bemusement of all, my Wife stayed friends with this woman. Someone did suggest it may have been a plan concocted to give my Wife an extra stick to beat me with (I am sure she is a Narcissistic sociopath) but I don't know, I really don't.
And now......this woman has moved in 300 yards down the road, and her kid is in school with my son. The first I heard of it was when I bumped into her in the school playground - it was quite a shock to the system. I have pretended to be angry and furious about it, stomping around and making veiled threats, but the reality is that it is an act, and I am lovesick once again - and through no fault of my own, I don't want to be here and I thought it was all in my past.
It is all confusing my Wife, who rather bizarrely wants us all to be friends again (WTF?) and thinks we should talk about it. However, I don't think this other woman will talk about because 2 years ago, she got herself off the hook by concocting a whole tissue of lies to effectively get herself off the hook scot free.....and once the talking starts, it'll all unravel.
But on the other hand, I have been so agitated twice that I have nearly crashed the car twice.
That can't go on. It has to stop. For everyone's safety.
Should I get her a message saying I will meet her ?
And if so, how ?