Hi
I'll try and make this cogent and keep this short, but really can't promise anything right now!
I'm a 27 year old female living in the UK. Objectively, my life is pretty much ruined. I've been living with a jumble of inter-connected mental health problems, probably largely due to trauma that even I am struggling to recognise as such. This is due to the fact that it doesn't fully fit with the popular notion of trauma/may have only been a trauma for me because I have suspected Aspergers (autism spectrum condition). We tend to feel things more and be more susceptible to mental health issues due to the stress and loneliness of having aspergers. Women with Aspergers go chronically undiagnosed and I'm pretty sure I am one of them.
Even MH professionals struggle to know how to understand or treat half of the conditions I'm dealing with. I've been unable to work for years and feel like I have been forced into being a hermit. My quality of life is zero. I have a couple of things I am very thankful for. But I cannot function at all and basically have no contact with other people, apart from one good friend I made recently who is keeping me going.
I have chronic depression and many symptoms of what is known as a dissociative disorder. i.e: the thousand yard stare. It's often associated with trauma, but can come on after long periods of stress, or with severe depression.. It massively affects my cognition: my memory and concentration is appaling. I feel like my intelligence is halved and have little idea of what is going on around me. I get these weird sensations in my body and my vision is blurry. I feel like a zombie, with no emotion, completely disconnected from reality. People actually stare at me on the street now. This condition is barely recognised and most people see to think I am a liar, even though this plus panic attacks make it pretty much impossible for me to leave the house or get near anyone. Also, the depression/anxiety/dissociation is so bad I can barely speak or do anything.
Everything is ruined. I have no future. I feel like I'm in a living nightmare. Because of the symptoms of dissociaton the therapists treat me like I am just stupid -- I sit there, barely even present, whilst they patronise me and try to create this narrative for why I'm in the situation I'm in which just doesn't really ring true. But I can't assert myself because of all this. I feel like my actual self has been completely eaten up by mental illness and no one even notices, or they just assign it to an apparent lack of character.
I managed to get onto an OU course recently which is one good thing in my life. I have managed to get by so far but everything has got so bad I feel like a monkey trying to write essays.
I don't want to come on here and talk about suicide, but I really don't think things can be fixed. The only way I can see things getting better is if someone who 'got' me could take me to a specialist MH unit. But I'm told to continue to cooperate with the services here, and as I said, I'm in such a bad way I can't really fight to get the right treatment.
I know all this is going to sound completely crazy... but well, I am and I need help.