How do you define emotional intelligence?
How do you get in touch with emotions on a moment to moment time frame?
I know of emotions that arises but unlike the thought process I can concentrate my mind to read a book for example, or even dispel the thought my meditation (or just being aware in the fully in moment and seeing that is no "me" attached to thought). So in the same way can I "concentrate" my emotions or meditate on them to dispel them?
First let us say that thought process, that the intellectual process resides somewhere in the head (male principle). Then let us say that emotions rest in the pit of the abdomen or stomach (female principle).
Now I ask how do I raise emotions up from me to then fine tune them or be aware of them so that they don't run a muck in my subconscious psyche which no doubt seeps into conscious awareness. Therefore the subconscious emotion side does not use a linear fashion to tell me what is wrong but a more creative force or by imagery either through my body or a "feeling."
Therefore I need to attune myself to be aware of my bodily signs at an early stage so I can respond appropriately. So how do I attune myself?