My wife and I have been together for just short of 7 years. I love her to bits and would do anything for her. Over the past couple of years we have had some bad arguments about stupid little things that end up in a shouting match. On four occasions i have slapped her around the face which is unforgivable behaviour. I am also very threatening in my use of language. Whilst is does not matter, I feel so sh*tty afterwrds that I wonder who is in most pain. When we have these arguments, it's like she is prodding me with a finger in the ribs all the time, only mentally rather than physically. I must stop this behaviour before it escalates into something more serious.
Can anybody offer me any advice before I seek medical advice.
AJ