Hello guys, I am a British guy who met my girlfriend when I was in America 9 months ago. And our relationship is currently long distance. I know this is stereotypical to say, but we are pretty much the identical person in nearly every aspect and because of this get on so well. In our 9 months we have never had a single falling out, and only on extremely rare occasions found ourselves annoying each other. Because of this, despite only have being met twice in person (4 weeks together) over the 9 months, we probably spend more time which each other than most couples, as we constantly play video games together, or watch stuff online together while in Skype calls, that can sometime last up to like 12 hours, without either of us getting bored.
We have often spoke about marriage and have a realistic plan in place on how we can live together.
Throughout our relationship she has always struggled with depression, and early on she made it clear that being with me seemed to cure it.
So it was a massive shock when she told me the other day that she needed a "break from us" as she thinks her depression is making her grow to hate me. In this time we have still been texting about random stuff, but never anything serious or couple like.
I admittedly over reacted at the start as I suffer from anxiety and had convinced myself she was doing this to break up with me, to which she assured me she still loved me very deeply and has no desire for us to finish.
I snapped out of it after that, and have tried to be more respectful of her wishes, but after asking her to try and explain what was going on, and how she felt the break was going as the week is nearly up she replied. "Throughout this week I have not craved to call with you once like I used to, and I don't want to speak to you about this anymore so let's stop messaging for the night"
I really don't know what to do. I see two options, keep sending her little messages reminding her I'm always here for her, or to completely ignore her and hope it will help her deal with this quickly so we can get back to normal.
I don't know which option will be best for her, all I know is not speaking to her is killing me inside, but is something I have to be prepared to do to help her.