Hello, my name is Samantha, Sam for short. This is the first time i have spoken openly about my depression, i have looked at other websites, but this one for some reason i warmed to after looking at some of the other messages posted here, it felt comfortable.
I went to the doctors for the first time nearly a year ago, for my depression. I think, looking back, it had been building up for some time.
The first step to seeking help was very difficult, i felt like i was wasting the doctor's time. Of course i wasn't received like that.
The doctor placed me on anti-depressants, i am currently on 150mg of venlafaxine after trying several other types of antidepressants over the year.
I do believe the medication helps to an extent, but i have been off work for the past 4 months and i dont feel there is any end to this.
My pay is starting to become affected, which produces other worries (i live alone and support myself financially)
If i am completely honest with myself, i am a mess. I have trouble sleeping, i have trouble doing anything, simple shopping for food i put off for days on end, if it wasn't for the responsibilty of feeding my 2 cats, i dont think i would bother, and when i do, i feel anxious and self concious.
My appetite has gone, i have no energy, my memory is terrible, i regularly forget mid sentence what i am saying, or what i did yesterday. I find nothing enjoyable any more, i think "i could do so and so today" then i think, what is the point? I seem to have aches and pains (back and shoulder pains) i think come about when i have to do something that makes me anxious, i tense up.
I suppose the reason i am writing this is i need help, but don't know where to go. The doctor just seems to give out the medication and says i will feel better soon, but im not. How should the tablets make me feel? Should they just help me cope, or should i feel happy on them? Should i be asking my GP to refer me to someone?
I find it very difficult to tell anybody how i feel, i think people will just think i am lazy and useless, so i dont really let on to what extent i am not coping.
I am sorry this message is a bit all over the place, but i have just writen it how i feel, somehow it is easier to talk to a screen!
If anybody out there has any suggestions of how i can help myself, or what help i should be asking for it would be very appreciated as i just dont know where to go from here. . . . I feel like i am just about alive, but i am certainly not living in any aspect.
Thank you in advance for any advice.
Samantha.