Reality check for the unconventional

Postby breathingnitrogen » Thu Feb 14, 2013 4:31 pm

I think we all need to realize that there are people who dont want to simple function normally...I know i don't I know i am perfectly happy with my backwards thoughts!!!! I don't want to believe in God! I don't want to love myself for being lazy and incompetent I want to push myself! I want to be unconventional I want to know for a fact I am happy and not doing whats normal!!!! So what if its wrong to cut your self...Im not doing it because im sad Im not being stupid and cutting to get a dudes attention Im doing it because to be honest its freaking arousing!!! Im not going to accept what u phycologist say is normal I think I can take somehting and love it and be healthy and function and not have to be conventional! Hell I get alot done in one day! I work out! I get my work done!!! I get off knowing that I am a whole heck of a lot happier than the average chick my age becuase I am not looking for a concventional relationship.....I think phycologist need to stop bashing the fetishist life style I think phycologoists need to realize that not every one one wants to take meds....I don't take meds for depression Im not depressed I get depressed but I think u "normal" folks do to!!!! I think we all need to get some facts in our heads we are all going to die!!!1 The human fatility rate it 100% No one lives for ever but im nnot going to drug myself up! Im not going to repress any "dark" thoughts! I am a high functioning person!!! I make above average grades! I have writing awards! I dont have a daaddy and my mother is incompetant and I screw her boyfriend and take carte of her kids!!! I read carl jung!!! I read about religion! I was one of the best speech givers in my debate and i quite!!! you wanna know why? becuase i didn't think I was getting anything from it! I hike! I love my dogs! I'm not one of thiose girls who lose there sense of being in there boy friend! Im going to go to college! I may or may not have kids! I may or may not like it! but life is about growth and iof Im not growing im going to figure wheather or not its a problem with me!!!! If it is I try to fix it! If its not I move on!!! Im not stupid! Im not blind!!!! Some people dont deserve good things to happen to them!!!! the stupid need a wake up call! I have a face and I have my own thoughts! I know when something isn't right and Im not just about to sit here and watch as we tell people its ok to be stagnant and incompatant!!! I refuse to be that way and if i can help one person realize there potential I will!!!!! I wont pussy foot around i wont tell them to take this drug and think happy thoughts!!! I willlt ell them the truth this is an ugly world!!! YOU CAN ONE SAVE YOURSELF!!!
I am not always happy! I am not always sad!!! we are divine in the sense of our intelligence and our ability to feel like we do stop blinding your self stop being zombies see the truth!!!!!!!
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Postby breathingnitrogen » Thu Feb 14, 2013 8:57 pm

sorry that was a rant...but the point is i feel like when i tlak to a psychologist or a physiotherapist they aren't helping...they baby you....they try to sell u drugs. YOU CAN ONLY HELP YOU"RE SELF!!! Information and techniques are presented to you but you have to solve your issues your self....if u have support good for u if you make it through by your self your stronger! You shouldn't be ashamed of your self...not of what is truly you...introspection my dear children introspection ^_^ We all have our own ways to solving problems...as long as your healthy it doesn't matter what it is...I work out...I do my crazy little drawings....the answers come to me...I don't care if you make jewlery out of chicken bones and listen to Lordz of Acid and your answers come to you


"all of thees voices are others people's angels!!!
- Marilyn Manson
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Postby gwen » Fri Feb 22, 2013 10:31 pm

Good for you! :D
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Postby alaladhad » Mon Feb 25, 2013 9:35 am

hello there!

Yes, I agree, there are some people who, for whatever reason, don't want to change their circumstances. It's frustrating if this person is close to you, and especially if they're whinging about how they hate their lives, but there's not much you can do about it.

Take care of you.

Ala
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Postby Zer0_gauge » Mon Feb 25, 2013 12:56 pm

I do agree with the poster. Despite my issues, I don't believe that there's a universal way everyone should function and be "helped".

I find it despicable that meds and 13 a dozen therapy are the only things that are expected to work.

I also find it hard to believe that because you like X and are in situation Y, that X is the result of Y. Y can be result of something else as well.

The problem nowadays is that we want results fast. If someone needs support, they want those problems resolved by tomorrow. It's not just the people that have the problems that want them fixed quikly, but also counselors, employers and other family members. There's no time for people to figure out what works. Because it works for him, it should work for her as well... it's the silliest assumption ever.

And let's not forget therapists are as much as the "norm" as anyone else. I once saw an older therapist and he wanted to label me with "internet addiction"... yes, a 50+ year old wanted to do so. 3 months later, when I saw a 25 year old therapist, she told me it was a load of crap, since what I do online is perfectly sensible. Point; just because a therapist does something (or doesn't) doesn't make that the social norm either.
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Postby breathingnitrogen » Mon Feb 25, 2013 3:07 pm

Thank you ^_^
Im gonna rant again...apologies before hand

everyone thinks there a doctor because of the internet....Especially those whom have there own problems try to label others with personality disorders and what not then try to telll that person what one is thinking and how what they are feeling is wrong!!!!!1

LET PEOPLE BE PEOPLE
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Postby breathingnitrogen » Tue Feb 26, 2013 4:39 pm

so my opinion on med
some people neeed them some people dont
I think medication for dealing with adhd and depression and stuff like that is bad and those who have to take medication should be slowly weineed off bc as a species we did not evolver on prozact and i always found meds to hurt the person more...
my opinion open to rebuttle
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