Hello all,
My name is Kenan Hadžalić and i come from Bosnia and Hercegovina. I have finished laws stuties and was/curently (for now) work at my father firms as a lawyers assosisiate. I have been workign this job for last year, and so far, i have done nothing bad in my way o view ( for example, i have done everything i was asked, did my part of job good - no bad nehaviours from my mentor was seen/feeled, and so on .... all in all when it comes to work ... i did good becouse i didnt make anyything bad for the complany i work for or for the clients i represent).
But, there was a problem. On satrurday 28.11.2015 my father (who is also my employer) came home drunk adn fired me bcs , and i quote "you don't respect me and for you I (my father) am nothing more then a dick". On those words i replied that i do respect him and his company, but that i can't agree with him on his thought bout one of our neighours (who is not our client) and that i don't like to speak of other people, simply bcs i don't know their backstory, therefore i cant judge them.
On that he fired me, explaining that i am not mature, rude and thankless (after everything he gave me - a opertunity to work), and that i should get another job, because i basiclly "called him a dick" - wich i never did. For dat moment i thought that those words are coming from a dose of alchhol he was drinkign and a gave it a rest til today/monday 30.11.2015 y.
But, today he was serius about his decision, and to be honest i don't know what to do. I did apologize for my behaviour (even tho i don*t think i did something wrong), and told him that i don't like to speak abut other people, especially if they are not clients of our/his firm, since i have no interest in them (they are not my family, not my friends, ... they are simply ppl i know and respect, nothing more).
I must warn you, this is long story short, but i think i have put in these line everything essential in that discussion we had.
So my question, what the hell should i do?!? I mean, i live in Bosnia, its not like jobs come around at every corner so i can pick it and say "**** it all, ill just do something else". How do i get my job back and still manage my private life so none couldn't force me in somekind of behaviuor just bcs they are my employes ....
Please, help. It's a big problem to me. I like my job, i do it with joy and don't want to lose a chance to get even better at it, but again, i can't alove everyove to treate me lieka dump which they can tose whenever they want.
I am good at my job, and in last year i have made 0 mistakes, hell, i have even improved buissness for around 20% ( no statistic data, but realistic spendings of my employer and number of jobs i have finished and acquired).
PS : sorry for bit grammer mistakes, not so good at english , i dont use everyday.