Happy to have found this forum and hope to find some answers to an observation of a reaction I’ve noticed with my sister.
We are in our late 40s and for many years but only on occasion I’ve noticed her recalling events oddly incorrectly. Her perception seems to be from some self constructed guilt or resentment.
The last and most recent was when she got angry with me for complaining about her mail being temporary sent to my home while she was between addresses.
I was the one that suggested she forward her mail to my residence and never once complained or suggested that doing this was in any way disruptive or a burden.
But she for some reason lashed out that I had complained or felt this was an annoyance.
What’s at play here?
Why would she make such assumptions and recall events so incorrectly?