Hey guys, not sure if anyone here remembers me, it's been a long while.
When I searched the site up again I wasn't sure it'd even still be up.
I'll keep it short and sweet, and I really just want some opinions, ultimately the decision is mine and mine alone, and I'm the one who lives with whatever one I make.
So I met this chick on a dating site arou d the very start of December last year, we seemed to really hit it off and got along immediately.
I asked her to be my girlfriend probably exactly 2 months later and we've been going strong ever since.
Here's the thing I want feedback on.
She wants to get married and have a family in the future, so do I, but here's the problem. It's a long distance relationship and always has been. We live 4.5 hours apart.
She lives in the city and I live in the country. We love each other and I'm pretty sure we'd get along living together, I know it's different when you live in close proximity, I think I'll just have to remind her that I need my space every now and then. We're opposites, she loves hanging out with friends and sh** and I'm not a fan of social events and gatherings, too much of it drains me even with my own family.
Basically the issue is it's looking like next year we're gonna be living together and getting married, I want it. She wants it more lol, she wants me to go there and live with her, I hate the city/suburbs and would rather we live in the country away from all the terrorist attacks and taffick and f***ing bs like that. But I also don't wanna drag her out here into the middle of nowhere away from all her friends where she will probably end up unhappy.
What do. Do I just bite the bullet and move to the city with her? Or do I talk her into moving here?
I'll add too that she's a 10+ year nurse and I'm just a sh** kicker at a chicken farm here lol.
I feel like if she comes here she's giving up a lot and I don't wanna pull her away from her life and have her resent me in the future.
I don't really have a life, I don't have friends, or an important job, I'm leaning towards moving there in the future but **** I'm going to miss my house. and my parents and my brothers who live close by, they're all I've ever really had.
So I guess the question is should I try and get her to come here or do I go there?
It's the biggest problem we have