ineed help with my anger at b/f

Maybe you don't trust him?

I think you need to go for anger therapy, preferably both of you, it's not healthy to be in a relasionship when pysical abuse is part of it, good luck.

my girlfriend used to get so mad and fly off the handle when i didnt want to hang out with her or i wanted to do something just with my friends. i turned out the problem was we were spending too much time together. she eventually be accustomed to me being there always and when i wasnt she would suspect, or simply get angry. so we made days where we would hang out seperatly, days to hang out together, with friends; days to hang out just us. this worked very well and everything worked out.