Hi guys.
2019 didn't start well.
If you remember me, i used to struggle with women. I developed depression due this, they refused me many times and so i realized that my value for them, is really low. I took antidepressants, but they seemed not so good (brintellix 10 mg)
I contacted a girl on instagram. Things started well, we went out, i like her and it seems she liked me too. we talked everyday with chat.
Then she had a lot of work to do, so we had dates once per week, but it was ok. Until she seemed very far from me.
We never had sex, but the conditions was never good. So the 22th dec i was decided. We would have go out for a dinner, i would have give her xmas gift, we would have sex.
The same she deleted all 'cause she was sick (that wasn't the first time -_- ) i was really annoyed, but ok, i stayed calm.
on xmas i asked again for a date, she declined 'cause she had stuff to do, but then she went to the cinema.
on 26th she invited me to her home, in order to meet her friends. She gave my xmas gift and i gave her too. in the end only one girl remained, and when she was saying that she'd have leave, "my" girl blocked her.
the 29th i asked again her for a date, but still nothing.
the 31th i asked if we would have meet for a while, in order to stay a little together for the new year. She declined again, i was really annoying, anyone could understand, but i just say that it was ok. And that is the last time I heard her. By her instagram stories i saw she was with her friend from the last time and a co-worker (and she said to me), but then looks like another guy was there, one i didn't know. But i don't wanna be paranoid (but yes, i think there's something).
It just passed 2 days, but we used to chat everyday, and she isn't watching my instagram stories anymore, I gave her a like the next day and stop.
It's over. I'm destroyed, my depression took me over, I cried. I never cried for this, but things are too big now.
I'm dedicating myself to walkings, to cooking, i'm writing fan ficiton, I followed every hints, but there's no cure for the lack of love.
I'm tired of this, i'm tired to read other girls saying that it's my fault cause i'm passive aggressive, 'cause i'm a jerk, an attention whore,or some $#%^ like this. it's my fault cause i spent money and energy on her and in return i have nothing. that she was in the right to close this (yeah ok, the damage is mine anyway), etc.
They are just wrong, they will never understand what a man feel.
I tried my best with this one, and the best brought to this.