Hi all.
I think I just got ghosted, and beyond this playing into my insecurities ("You shouldn't have done this! You knew it would fail!) I feel like a fool. Generally, I feel sad.
I get that it's not about me, that it's about them, etc etc. Yes, I do understand all that. It still hurts.
The problem? We play on a team together and our next game is in a couple of weeks. Assuming that the ghosting goes on, things will be awkward. Or likely not. We aren't on the same line while playing and it's easy enough to sit far apart in the dressing room, and easy enough not to have to talk.
But I can't reconcile myself to the notion that I got ghosted and that there's now nothing to say. And, no, I'm not about to ask, even in a general non-threatening kind of way, "what happened?".
I suppose i know what I have to do, which is, essentially, nothing. And my sadness, well, this too shall pass. Dang. Sigh.