rape and anger

**Posts:** 3 · by **pigseatcorn** » Fri Sep 30, 2005 9:29 pm

i fell in love with a girl. fell in love for the first real time, and i felt amazing. got to know her. all of this. all great. etc.... she suffers from severe depression but i do too sometimes, and i understood. i found out about a month ago that at age 11 she was raped by her f***ing grandfather. i looked on the sex offender registry list and found out his address, name, and .... everything. now here is my problem.

i am extremely angry, and i dont know what i may do to this worthless mother ______ piece of ______ and i would like you to give me a little advice. its been this way for about 5 days now. im afraid to directly tell you what i've thought about doing to him because it may come back to haunt me, but use your vivid imagination i know its wrong but its so hard not to go right now and just..... anyways, even if i did do these things to him, would it help her recover in anyway or would it only bring up the past and **** things up for her even more or what what etc etc...

**Posts:** 8044 · by **satanstoystore** » Fri Sep 30, 2005 11:07 pm

it would turn you into a monster.

**Posts:** 56 · by **Anon14** » Sat Oct 01, 2005 2:12 pm

what are u planning to do ? :S

**Posts:** 4 · by **baby_a** » Tue Oct 04, 2005 3:31 pm

If i was you, i'd leave it. Just be supportive for her. If she wanted things stirring up, she would ask/do it herself.
I understand your anger, it would make me pretty angry too, but i dont think your girlfriend needs her past being bought back up to the surface and cause her depression to get worse.

**Posts:** 20 · by **Makessenseright** » Thu Oct 27, 2005 10:34 pm

Think of what's best for your girl, if you just stay mad or act out you'll hurt her more than she's hurt now. What can you do to heal her wounds? Focus all of your energy into that thought. You can stand by her, tell her she's beutiful, pure, and lovely inside and out. Marry her if your ready, but be passionate about doing what's best for here. If you don't think you can stay with her forever, break of the relationship now so that you won't hurt her latter. I could go on and on, but my point is to take your focus off of the gradfather, he'll die soon and likely go to hell. Focus on your girl, make a difference in her life for the better.

Going after grampa will only tear her wound deeper and be the most selfish thing you could possiblely do.

Show that you love her,
SVD

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