I have been working with my company for about a year now. I really enjoy what I do. But my boss really makes it hard to enjoy the work atmosphere. Over the course of a year, I've noticed him making lots of remarks that go against me. Allow me to explain.
My boss and I are very much idealistic opposites. He spends on everything (maximalist) and I save the majority of my salary (minimalist). He always comments on why I don't have the latest newest things. For example, he has a new Porsche. I on the other hand choose not to own a car and can so because I'm close to work. I save and invest the amount I would spend on a car. So he'll constantly try to bring something up in a conversation like: "X is such a great place, but you wouldn't know because don't have a car...". Remarks like this are common, and I find extremely immature. He has even called me "loser" directly. How can I neutralize statements like this?
Another thing that annoys me, he constantly asks why I don't have a family yet. I am childfree by choice. This concept completely flips his world and he just can't comprehend not having a family. He'll say things like "Why the hell would you be childfree"? He'll say things like "Everyone can go to the christmas party that has a family, this is a family place. So you except you".
Really what's going on is this complete value clash. And my boss, as immature as he is, is taking it upon himself to influence/pressure/vent at me. I'm fine with everyone having their own believes but when they try to force their belief onto me it really annoys me.
In an ideal world, I would say something like "Stick it up your donkey". But obviously I can't without repercussions. How can neutralize or best handle his immature remarks?