Candid wrote:I hear what you're saying, although I believe miracles can happen at any age. The main thing is that a shift in you will produce a shift in her. At the very least, you can get to a point where she ceases to be the person who hurt you and becomes the person for whom you feel compassion and sorrow.
Yes, I've got to that point. It only bothers me when we're both really stressed, which is rare.
I fully understand the dynamic of losing both trust and reliable judgment. You're working on that with your daily Herbie's Right journal. Right?
Yes.
Let's keep the main focus on loving and appreciating Herbie for now, shall we?
I'm working on accepting Herbie for now.
