KarenYvonne wrote:help me out pls
One may start off by assuming that jealousy is always a sign of a low self-image. if you lack confidence about yourself, and you are threatened to lose your partner to another person, then this will be experienced as a disaster. It will certainly reinforce your low self-esteem. On he other hand if you are a self-confident person and your partner leaves you for another person, this may hurt, but not disastrously so, because you will soon be looking for a more worthy person. Besides, couples who both have self-confidence, seldom switch partners, they seem to have stable personalities.
In order to be successful, in life and love, we need to have an unshakeable belief in our self. A low self-esteem is not only psychological - stemming from a disturbed childhood experiences - but more often is the result of a underlying biological abnormality that prevents the body from producing feel-good neurotransmitters. This may affect our self-image.
Hence we must make sure that a low self-esteem is not prompted by an abnormal biochemical mechanism. This needs to be addressed before considering "psychological" issues.
Please read:
Treatment of a Low Self-Esteem
and then study the self-help psychotherapy course in full at:
Summary Of Self-Help Psychotherapy Course