by Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Nov 11, 2019 5:57 pm
@quietvoice
He’s either trolling or it is an issue beyond help in a forum.
As for the OP and diet of the son, I agree with you that food/diet can play a significant role. My only caution is that the 20 year old requires less rather than more intervention by the mother.
The 20 year old is telling the mother in plain terms to back off. She is 24/7. It must be exhausting for this person to be a ward. The warden already dictates so many aspects of this persons life, to now add additional controls will probably just compound the problem.
I’ve seen the same thing in the prison system. People refuse to bath or change, because they are very angry about lack of control, lack of freedom. They lash out by controlling the very limited things they feel are possible to control.
The headmistress is acting like a headmistress, believing that it is a good thing. She struggles to turn the spotlight on her behaviors that take control from the 20 year old.