Husband drinks too much leaving me lonely

Postby Cdifnow333 » Sat Nov 25, 2017 1:39 am

Sad part is he is passed out next to me and just doesnt care about me enough to give a ****. And i maybe i get 20 mins of him sober mon-fri and 8 hours or less on the weekend. I just didnt know i was signing up for childcare and no Adult interaction! I dont know what to think or do! I am plain out angry because it is like I dont matter! To whom do I matter to? Why am I here? I know the children need me but after that where is my place? Im not talking suicide but I see why people seek other attention. Im so lonely. I dont even know how to tell him because he belittles my needs. Trys to make it about my relationship with my parents. No! Dont care about that. I am angry because my husband is stuck in a drunkin rut! And I am living in the movie Groundhog.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sat Nov 25, 2017 2:26 am

If him being drunk is unacceptable, leave the relationship. As you stated, you didn’t sign up for it. Marriage is a legal contract, not a prison sentence. You have choices.
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Postby laureat » Sat Nov 25, 2017 10:24 am

1. Let your husband know that you are no longer comfortable : and if he can do something about it
2. If you two cannot find an agreement you should trust oneself you are good enough to move forwards with a new life without him
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