levi38 wrote:1. This hypersensitivity started when he was in kindergarden. And he always hated make-up and he noticed that when we started dating, he was always feeling sick around me and some month ago he went to a psychologist and psychiatrist and they told him what was actualy going on.
2. If he sees her make-up in a avarage range of sight is enough to get triggered.
3. I was not with him. He said that the doctors were talking about a treatment for amelioration, but he can get cured.
Read BOTH parts...
PART 1There are certain aspects of what you describe that do not seem to fit very well together. This seems like a control issue.
Is there a possibility that your boyfriend does not have a condition and just doesn't want you to wear make-up? Is it possible your boyfriend just does not know how to tell you that he doesn't like that you wear make-up so he has made up a story?
PART 2Let's assume I am wrong. Assume that Part 1 is inaccurate. He legitimately has this make-up hypersensitivity.
In that case you can use exposure therapy. This is pretty easy to accomplish. You get him to agree to the therapy, which is just exposing him over time to progressively more and more makeup.
You start by wearing ZERO make-up for a week or two. You don't tell him when you will start wearing makeup.
Then, after a few weeks you put on just a minimal, minimal, amount that he cannot detect. Maybe a single bit of rouge that matches your skin tone almost exactly. He will not be able to see it.
Do that for a week.
Each week change to the next tone/shade.
Eventually he will say something. Eventually he will ask, "Are you wearing makeup?"
At that point you explain that you have been wearing makeup for weeks without him noticing.
You then return to not wearing make up for a few weeks. You then start exposure therapy again. Eventually he becomes use to make up.