How do I fix things with my girlfriend

Hey Will's,

Sorry to hear you're going through a difficult time with you're girlfriend. I'd suggest you take some time out as it'll benefit both of you. You've called and messaged her and her not replying is because she doesn't want to talk to you right now.

In the meantime, give yourself a break and stop mentally torturing yourself. Chances are how she's saying she feels which has led up to this argument is a build up of similar events. I'd suggest to reflect on those and spend time evaluating the situations from her point of view and yours.

When you're both ready then it'll be helpful for you both to talk about things and ask questions such as: how would you like me to help you with xyz, what do you need from me. It sounds like this argument boils down to communication and you both just need to talk about your needs and expectations.

Please don't contact her anymore, you can send her a last message saying that you're taking her not responding to mean that she needs space from you and that you're hear when she's ready to talk with you and that you would like to work on the issues she's raised.

Then just do you. Hang out with family, friends, hobbies etc. Hope this helps

Thank you it was very helpful I have already text saying when every your ready to talk I'm hear I have to start looking after myself

There is a girl in work I really like we have been working together for over a year now we have a good laugh but recently I have been having strong feelings for her I think I'm falling in love with her I can't stop thinking about her every time I see her I want to tell her but don't want to wreak our friendship as we are close should I tell her as this is driving me crazy life is to short what should I do please my heads melted I have a girlfriend but we are having a rough patch when we are together all I can think about is the girl in work we have been together for over two years now

This is you isn't it? Maybe you should think about being on your own for a bit so you can work what it is you actually want.?