by johnusacitizen » Tue May 01, 2018 8:10 am
It's not a status, not a position, and sadly in the terms of this forum.. say, what is it to be wise? You'll never take that, you build that. It's not a game. You don't enherent that.
Wisdom isn't a thing, an attribute, it's a work over time.
What is it to be emotionally intelligent, to understand this mess all around you, but also to better understand yourself. To have struggled, fumbled, made huge mistakes and cared about the outcome, and sorted out how to engage better.
Emotional intelligence isn't a thing, it's a description of a complicated individual work. It's not even i raw ntelligence, it's sanity. Brutal honesty doesn't cover easily, people are so dearly entrenched in superstition, religion, culturally infused mind f'ing ways.
To understand every word you say or choose not to say, every expression made real and all all those not expressed and HOW YOU GO ABOUT ALL THIS... That's your contribution to culture/civilizatiin.
People get so caught up with their business they myopically focus on games, ignoring human beings, and other expressions of life.
I'm sorry, there are no simple words of direction. The sooner you realize some things.. words are evocative in sharing. When there is no work, no comprehension, how can any words evoke a shared understanding? There is no contextualization of reality to even begin to start a dialog.
You should have asked about Emotional delusions. Intelligence requires formative works, which sadly don't exist.