Not Running Out Of Things To Say

So I have found in my journey of growing in my confidence that this is one of the biggest issues I faced. However I have found a solution that it super helpful. What I used to find myself doing is trying hard to think of something that will make the person I'm talking to like me. That is the first fundamental mistake. What I found helped me was to start saying things that I found interesting, funny, or insightful. In other words I was talking for myself, and not for others. This changes it to what you say being more authentic and just sounds more confident. You gotta try this out, it's not easy at first, but it is a game changer. Sure some people won't like you're authentic self, but that just means they're not someone you're compatible with. When you find someone who is compatible though, this will be way more effective.