by DelvaRebin » Tue Aug 16, 2011 4:17 pm
I definitely agree with Martin on this one... experience is your best ally if you want to improve! Other things you can do:
Write down some signature stories you can tell in almost any context, and work on perfecting them -- think of pace, comic timing, inflection, even the order in which you tell the story!
Think of the sound of your voice. Record it speaking in a variety of emotional registers, and listen very carefully. Change it where you think it should be changed, and try speaking from the diaphragm for better projection and tone.
Film yourself performing a variety of gestures while telling a story (you can actually do this at the same time as you record your voice), and inspect them to see how they look. Practice in front of the mirror! This also applies for facial expressions.
When you write a speech, try to build in an overall story arc or message, but be sure to include moments of laughter, tears, inspiration and everything in between! Audiences enjoy properly-done emotional rollercoaster rides. Craft your speeches lovingly.
There are so many things to learn! Try looking into some professional coaches who can help you get that extra spark, then get out there and practice! Good luck.