stabbing pain in the chest, anxiety, loss of appetite

**Posts:** 103 · by **Flimsy** » Mon Apr 21, 2014 4:06 pm

Hi, so I suffer from anxiety so much that one day when we had a trip to france with our school class I didn't eat anything that day except a piece of bread. That's it. no more. just so you know what kind of a person I am. and when I came home (the trip was from 8 am to 9 pm) I didn't eat anything either and went to sleep. A piece of bread...

That's not my normal eating habit everyday though. But lately I'm struggling to eat even at home where i usually feel safe. not anymore so much. so i weigh like 56 kilograms and am 17 years old. its pretty sad.. i weighed 50 kgs a year ago but now i started trying to eat more. i become unmotivated now though because i can't get past 56 kgs... is there still hope for me? i want to reach 80 kg when im 22 grown or something but i cant. and i thought i only had anxiety when in school or public places but i realised even when helping my parents in the garden, well we have to move rubble with shovels and the car with the trailer to a new place if you know what i mean. even then when were outside where noone else is and i am with my parents my lips become dry so i have to chew them off. and we work so hard that we become tired and then i say i am too tired to eat which is true. but my mother still forces me to eat. sometimes i have a stabbing pain in the chest maybe its the heart. and sometimes its in the stomache. i have no friends whatsoever and i dont want any. we already went to a therapist and she'll give me the result few days later from today. she'll probably tell me to go outside even more like atleast 2 hours a day which is good advice since im alone most of the time in the holidays sitting infront of my computer. 2 hours is nice. but i dont think that'll help me. and i am also destroying my nails all the time but not with the mouth as some people do ugh..
so the problem is my heart goes crazy even when im helping my parents outside. im only good when im completely alone. i dont like others controlling me. and when im at home i refuse to eat just to torture myself a bit more.

halp

**Posts:** 21 · by **nicole.young** » Tue Apr 22, 2014 10:23 am

This can lead to several health problems. Have you tried working with a psychologist already? There is no harm with that. They know what is best, especially for cases that are already as severe as this. If not, then, at least find something that you will be happy about. This could be a person, a sport, a hobby, or just about anything.

**Posts:** 103 · by **Flimsy** » Tue Apr 22, 2014 10:24 am

nicole.young wrote:This can lead to several health problems. Have you tried working with a psychologist already? There is no harm with that. They know what is best, especially for cases that are already as severe as this. If not, then, at least find something that you will be happy about. This could be a person, a sport, a hobby, or just about anything.

Didn't I say that I went to a psychologist (well I said therapist but isn't that the same?) and she'll give me the result a few days later from now on.

**Posts:** 6 · by **Mila333** » Tue Apr 22, 2014 7:25 pm

Being 17 years old and weighting 56 kg its pretty normal to me. I am not sure why would you like to be 80 kg? I guess I am not sure how tall you are, but 80 kg is probably consider overweight.

Eating healthy and having healthy eating habits is important, but in your case you shouldn't worry how much you weight right now.

**Posts:** 103 · by **Flimsy** » Wed Apr 23, 2014 9:42 am

Mila333 wrote:Being 17 years old and weighting 56 kg its pretty normal to me. I am not sure why would you like to be 80 kg? I guess I am not sure how tall you are, but 80 kg is probably consider overweight.

Eating healthy and having healthy eating habits is important, but in your case you shouldn't worry how much you weight right now.

I said I wanna be like 80 kg when I'm 22 years old. do you people even read? xD
anyway I have classmates in my school that weigh like 65 to 75 kgs already.. actually my BMI considered me as being slightly underweight. Oh and I am like 1,82 meters tall. maybe this will balance itself in the future no?

**Posts:** 21 · by **nicole.young** » Wed Apr 23, 2014 2:31 pm

Flimsy wrote:
nicole.young wrote:This can lead to several health problems. Have you tried working with a psychologist already? There is no harm with that. They know what is best, especially for cases that are already as severe as this. If not, then, at least find something that you will be happy about. This could be a person, a sport, a hobby, or just about anything.

Didn't I say that I went to a psychologist (well I said therapist but isn't that the same?) and she'll give me the result a few days later from now on.

How was the result? Are they in your hands already? I sincerely hope that it is nothing severe.

**Posts:** 103 · by **Flimsy** » Thu Apr 24, 2014 11:02 am

nicole.young wrote:
Flimsy wrote:
nicole.young wrote:This can lead to several health problems. Have you tried working with a psychologist already? There is no harm with that. They know what is best, especially for cases that are already as severe as this. If not, then, at least find something that you will be happy about. This could be a person, a sport, a hobby, or just about anything.

Didn't I say that I went to a psychologist (well I said therapist but isn't that the same?) and she'll give me the result a few days later from now on.

How was the result? Are they in your hands already? I sincerely hope that it is nothing severe.

Yeah she told me that my organs are fine and that I'd meet her a few times to learn relaxing techniques and take very small pills.. I didn't like the idea but I'll give it one try. I expected something like a CBT actually. and that I should meet up with other people in my age for a group therapy.. I don't see how that'll help me.

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