My boyfriend, me and diapers

**Posts:** 2 · by **maryjane1** » Sun Feb 03, 2008 5:39 am

I am going out with this guy. I am really confused. I am 21 and he is 22. He is a really nice guy asnd I am really in to him. After we went out for about a month a strange thing happened. We went out to a bar and were drinking then I happened to notice something. He wet his pants. I didnt say any thing at first but then we went back to his place and finally I did because I just couldnt hold my toungue any longer. He said he didnt realize he did. I asked him if he should change and he said it didnt matter and spent the rest of the evening in wet pants. He even drove me home without changing. Since then he has done this a couple of times. Whats more when he does this he starts talking like a baby before he does it. Finally I needed to confront him about it. When I pressed the issue he started crying. He told me that he didnt know why he did it. He also told me that he liked to where diapers too. He also told me that he was attracted to girls in diapers or girls with wet pants.

Since that night he has been wanting me to wear diapers for him. He tries to get me to wet my pants by tickling me or pressing on my bladder when I have to pee. He even bought some diapers and plastic pants and wanted me to wear them. I gave in and did.

Since then I have been treating him more like a child. I have kind of fallen into this mother role and he this child role. I have to admit that I kind of like it cause we dont do it all the time. I am very attracted to him and we have a very good sex life. I also have to admit that find it very cute to see him in a diaper and acting like a 4 year old. Outside of all this he is a very normal guy. I know this all sounds really strange. Do you think anything is wrong with this?

**Posts:** 219 · by **Hermaine** » Sun Feb 03, 2008 7:18 am

I've red an article once about a woman who's made it her bussiness to accomodate some people's need to wear diapers and act like babies. She even has a big cot and specialy made baby pyjamas. She said it's usualy men with high pressure jobs. So your boyfriend is definitely not alone.
I reckon most people wouldn't be able to cope with it, but if it doesn't bother you and you seem to even like it, don't worry about it.

**Posts:** 8044 · by **satanstoystore** » Sun Feb 03, 2008 7:19 am

As long as it doesn't interfere with regular life, and you and he both like it- I think its fine. Although it should be something he checks out if you two decide to have real babies. I'm not sure they would understand.

**Posts:** 1836 · by **Annabell** » Sun Feb 03, 2008 10:53 am

Hi maryjane1

Are you comfortable with it? One on hand, you say you like it, but on the other, there is something about your post that makes me feel you're not certain whether you're OK with it.

**Posts:** 2970 · by **PoppyGoodWill** » Sun Feb 03, 2008 7:08 pm

I would set limits for him about peeing his pants in public, for instance. If you're going to play this game, be sure it's private. But I say indulge his kink. It's pretty harmless in the grand scheme of things. And start thinking about how you'd like him to indulge your kinks!

**Posts:** 7 · by **MisterMedley** » Mon Feb 04, 2008 12:43 pm

I think it's a little ridiculous that by asking you to wear diapers, he's asking you to help him normalize his behavior. If this is a fetish you've considered before, that's one thing. But I'm getting that the thought of wearing diapers didn't enter your mind until he showed up. If you're both having fun, heck, have fun. But if any tinge of doubt or discomfort shows up, it's best you have a talk with him about the importance of being able to enjoy sex for what it is. When you can enjoy sex as just sex, that's when I believe the kinks can be thrown for that extra spice...

Also, I say normalizing the behavior, not to make a judgement on the act, but because he cried when you confronted him about it. If he cried, it's apparent something is bothering him about it deep down. And by him asking you to encourage this, he's not dealing with the issues that cause him all the tears.

**Posts:** 1453 · by **PsyChris** » Mon Feb 04, 2008 6:01 pm

You mention a very key word.. "I gave in"

Obviously when you realized this was happening your options were to give in or to try to change his behavior.

It is not for me to say whether this is a good or bad thing. If it inhibits him -- like urinating in public than ultimately it is not a desirable behavior for him.

**Posts:** 88 · by **petitmal** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 3:42 am

I think this is something that you might accomodate short term in a new relationship but in the long term,its a non starter.
If this is a genuine post then think about it. This guy had no right laying this on you the way he did. He must get some kind of thrill about wetting his pants in public. Maybe its some kind of control/humiliation thing,either way you are on the receiving end of it.
I'd advise that you move on.

**Posts:** 246 · by **alexd181** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:33 am

This is typical behavor of someone who does something psychologically damaging, feels guilty, then asks another person to do that thing also to 'fix' his guilt.

I don't think you need to learn to be ok with it, I also don't think you need to discontinue the relationship (providing this is the only major issue). I do think he needs to see a psychologist to determine the root cause of this behavor, I would guess something happened in his past that lead him to act this way, and now this behavor is not healthy for him (even if he doesn't see that).

It's something you might consider encouraging him to deal with by talking to someone (qualified) about it, if you truly have his best interests at heart.

**Posts:** 2 · by **katherin** » Sun Feb 04, 2018 12:24 pm

If it was me I would treat him like a toddler/young child.
Make him wear a pull up diaper when out and he has to tell you when he needs to urinate by saying "mummy I need a wee wee". You then decide whether -
1) you take him for a wee wee to a public toilet, pull down his pull up, sit him on the toilet, pull his pull up back up, wash his hands and yours.
or
2) do nothing and he will wet his pull up. he then has to say "mummy I did a wee wee in my pull up".

You could also, from when he says "mummy I need a wee wee" pop a dummy in his mouth, until -
1) 10 minutes after toilet
or
2) 20 minutes after he says "mummy I did a wee wee in my pull up".

Also give him his a dummy when changing his wet pull up and do this in public if you can or in a public toilet.

**Posts:** 2958 · by **quietvoice** » Sun Feb 04, 2018 12:49 pm

^^^^^^ Just wondering if you thought that you were providing an answer to the original poster. This thread is ten years old.

**Posts:** 1 · by **Dlgirl67** » Thu Mar 26, 2020 9:30 pm

I personally enjoy a guy Putting me in a diaper and returning the favour it's brought me and my husband closer together both physically and sexualy. We don't need to wear them but we enjoy it we both agreed not to use them for fecal matter but Will happily wet them for each other but depends on what turns you on try everything once that's what I'll say.

**Posts:** 5 · by **CaptainLuvs** » Mon Jun 29, 2020 6:24 am

katherin wrote:If it was me I would treat him like a toddler/young child.
Make him wear a pull up diaper when out and he has to tell you when he needs to urinate by saying "mummy I need a wee wee". You then decide whether -
1) you take him for a wee wee to a public toilet, pull down his pull up, sit him on the toilet, pull his pull up back up, wash his hands and yours.
or
2) do nothing and he will wet his pull up. he then has to say "mummy I did a wee wee in my pull up".

You could also, from when he says "mummy I need a wee wee" pop a dummy in his mouth, until -
1) 10 minutes after toilet
or
2) 20 minutes after he says "mummy I did a wee wee in my pull up".

Also give him his a dummy when changing his wet pull up and do this in public if you can or in a public toilet.

sounds like you really want to be a Mommy

**Posts:** 2 · by **katherin** » Mon Jun 29, 2020 1:34 pm

Mummy is here. xx

**Posts:** 5 · by **CaptainLuvs** » Mon Jun 29, 2020 5:10 pm

katherin wrote:Mummy is here. xx

Lol you're sweet it's epic you want to be my Mummy but I'm a big boy even if I still perfectly fit irl in Huggies pullups/Pampers Thomas pullups and Size 6 baby diapers cause Lightweight. Xoxoxo for your care and concern though.

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