low confidence

**Posts:** 16 · by **kavya shrivastava** » Tue Jan 26, 2016 9:06 am

hi... ... i suffer a great problem nowadays and that is lack of confidence.... ....at times(most of the times) i am doing it right but i never have enough confidence to hVe assurance... ....this proves to be very disastrous sometimes... .... please tell me how can i develop confidence and Faith i n myself??

**Posts:** 11 · by **instilledconfidence** » Tue Jan 26, 2016 9:07 pm

As a confidence coach for women, I can tell you that you are not alone and there is plenty of hep out there!

Self confidence is something you can learn to have but it helps if you look at why you are not confident and what may have caused these emotions and feelings in the first place. A better understanding of why, sometimes helps when we are taking steps to improve confidence levels in ourselves.

Above all else, believe in yourself, look at your positive traits, smile, surround yourself with positive people, and set goals for yourself. Confidence will come!

There are many websites that promote confidence. Go to Google and type in the search bar "self-confidence" you are bound to find articles, courses and other self help tips. Good luck.

**Posts:** 1554 · by **laureat** » Tue Jan 26, 2016 11:50 pm

success = confidence

but the question is how can success = confidence if you are not aware about your success?? it is the moment when the negatives get our attention, and it becomes like an eclipse

just because today happens to be a bad day, it doesn't necessary mean that all the decade was bad it is simply an eclipse situation

**Posts:** 6 · by **Qumran Taj** » Wed Jan 27, 2016 1:27 am

I have news for you: MOST people try to appear more confident than they really are. In my line of work (I'm a counselor and certified professional Life Coach) people tell me things they would never admit to anyone else. The bottom line is that insecurity, fear, anxiety over a million different things are being carried around by a great, great many people. The difference between those people and you is that you are willing to admit your lack of confidence.

So, none of that really solves your issue does it? Of course not. I would humbly suggest that you focus on those parts of you that are strong, positive and self-assured (no matter how tiny that part of you may be.) Like Oprah Winfrey famously said, 'whatever you focus on grows.' So why not spend more and more time each day thinking about all those things that make you feel special in a good way? Convincing yourself there's a reason to be confident takes time. There's no magic bullet.

One last thing. Everybody makes mistakes and fails. EVERYBODY. If you're not missing the mark on a daily basis, you're definitely not a human being. Accept every mistake you make as a course correction. A training exercise.

Wish you the best. :-)

**Posts:** 42 · by **PalmaNova** » Fri Jan 29, 2016 1:47 pm

Think positive. Try to relax. Eliminate bad thoughts. Believe in yourself , and never doubt yourself. Stay in front of mirror and have motivation speech .

**Posts:** 10113 · by **JuliusFawcett** » Sat Jan 30, 2016 10:16 am

Let go of your fearful thought patterns, and listen to your intuition

**Posts:** 42 · by **PalmaNova** » Sat Jan 30, 2016 4:12 pm

JuliusFawcett wrote:Let go of your fearful thought patterns, and listen to your intuition

I agree with you Julius Fawcett. Cheers !

**Posts:** 263 · by **handheart** » Fri Mar 18, 2016 6:08 am

Well to gain self confidene start likeing yourself ,think corect that means positively and think only at good things .Find every day reasons to be grateful and happy because you will atract good things in your life

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