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Re: very weird thoughts

WOW! She has issues based on some kind or experience that has happened in her past. If I were you I would eliminate her from your social circle and if she causes issues for you, turn her in. Don't allow her negative and psychotic behavior to affect you.
by instilledconfidence
Wed Jan 27, 2016 7:15 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: very weird thoughts
Replies: 1
Views: 1739

Re: Feeling ashamed and guilty

Don't be so hard on yourself. Kids experiment all the time it is perfectly normal, As long as this behavior didn't continue into adulthood, let it go. Your perfectly normal.
by instilledconfidence
Wed Jan 27, 2016 7:13 pm
 
Forum: Psychology
Topic: Feeling ashamed and guilty
Replies: 1
Views: 946

Re: low confidence

As a confidence coach for women, I can tell you that you are not alone and there is plenty of hep out there! Self confidence is something you can learn to have but it helps if you look at why you are not confident and what may have caused these emotions and feelings in the first place. A better unde...
by instilledconfidence
Tue Jan 26, 2016 9:07 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: low confidence
Replies: 7
Views: 3947

Re: Uglier than my friends

OK for starters let me tell you this. No one and I mean NO ONE is going to like you, much less love you, until you love yourself. You need to start looking at your positive qualities and accepting who you are. You have supportive friends it seems but maybe you need to find some people to hang out wi...
by instilledconfidence
Tue Jan 26, 2016 9:01 pm
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: Uglier than my friends
Replies: 11
Views: 4881

Re: Crying for help.

I am definitely no expert here, but it sounds like you are depressed. Maybe talk to someone and see why you suddenly feel this way. Obviously you seem to know what you want but there seems to be some confusion as to how to go about getting there. I will say this...if you love someone, think about al...
by instilledconfidence
Mon Jan 25, 2016 7:35 pm
 
Forum: Depression
Topic: Crying for help.
Replies: 1
Views: 1519

Re: often get angry

Maybe you need to look a little deeper at why you get so angry. Is it really justified? Sometimes when we are unhappy with our own situations, for example, our job, a relationship, or something deeper, we tend to become more angry at those around us and lash out for no real justified reason. Without...
by instilledconfidence
Mon Jan 25, 2016 7:30 pm
 
Forum: Anger Management
Topic: often get angry
Replies: 8
Views: 5843

Re: Urge to have revenge

It is human nature to react to a negative situation. However, reacting by "getting even" is not healthy for you. Revenge does not fix what made you angry, it definitely does not help the situation get fixed if that is even possible, and it should bring feelings of remorse on your part. Ins...
by instilledconfidence
Mon Jan 25, 2016 7:27 pm
 
Forum: Anger Management
Topic: Urge to have revenge
Replies: 36
Views: 11868

Re: phone calls

If the fear you have is with confrontation and failure, you need to face those fears and take the steps needed to replace them with confidence and assurance. You can do that by making calls whenever possible. Force yourself to make those calls and know what you need to say and accomplish with each c...
by instilledconfidence
Sun Jan 24, 2016 12:37 am
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: phone calls
Replies: 8
Views: 3985

Re: why me?

I was bullied in both middle school and high school. I didn't fit in I guess. I took it personal. Let me say this to you though, after high school is over, you can choose what path and what people you will surround yourself with. Meet new people, do new things, and work on yourself. Be honest with y...
by instilledconfidence
Thu Jan 21, 2016 11:23 am
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: why me?
Replies: 7
Views: 3292

Re: In need for advice

I understand wanting to spend time with your fiance as family is always important, however, at this point I think you need to gain some independence. It is wonderful that he helps you and I am sure you would do the same for him, but him helping you is not making you happy at all. It sounds to me lik...
by instilledconfidence
Thu Jan 21, 2016 11:06 am
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: In need for advice
Replies: 8
Views: 3897

Re: Low self esteem, feeling fed up!

My advice to you is simple. First of all, before anyone else can like you, you need to like yourself! This can take time, but it can happen. Second, stop worrying about anyone else and/or what they are thinking. You cannot control what other people do! Let them talk, let them gossip, you need to ign...
by instilledconfidence
Thu Jan 21, 2016 10:57 am
 
Forum: Self Esteem & Confidence
Topic: Low self esteem, feeling fed up!
Replies: 4
Views: 2117

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