polyanna/paula (split personalities?), its kind of nice that you asked whats so 'eugh' about me, don't worry about asking probing questions, no-one but my internet friend seems to really be at all curious as to how I'm feeling and whatnot, and even she doesn't most of the time, so, its nice.
Now, what is so eugh about me... I'm not sure if I can quite describe it, but, I find myself repulsive, its not
just a physical thing, I feel as if I'm a complete weirdo, I don't say much, I often keep quiet, but when I say something, it seems so forced, I literally go over in my head 'should I say this? I'm not sure, its kind of boring and stupid and annoying, however, they are expecting a response...'. I think the best way to describe this, is by saying that I view myself as 'sad' a 'loser', here's something no-one here wants to hear, I never will be in a and I never will have a relationship, with anyone, ever, and, this
will sound gross, but what the hey, I watch porn!, yes, thats how sad I am, oh, but it gets worse, I don't just watch any old porn, I watch first-person perspective porn, mostly, and, you know what, its not even that enjoyable anymore, I won't go into the details, I've scarred people for life enough already, but, I feel bad and ashamed when I 'watch' it, on many an occasion I have felt very sad, and even cried both during and after, so, there is another eugh thing, I am a sad loser who cries alot over stupid things. Oh, and btw, its not the fact that I watch porn which makes it sad, or the type I watch, its that fact in conjunction with who I am, to be honest, I don't view porn-watchers as being sad at all, except myself, I often saw it as something that was fun, just an 'aid', really, for when you can't be bothered to fantasise.
Well, I hope that makes sense, I just wish I could be like other people.
Oh, and polly, I liked hearing about that story
, its just that, to me, no-one is perfect, everyone has small imperfections, but I see myself as different from all of that, I see myself as boring, stupid and, yes, eugh. I feel as if I make others feel miserable, or bored, or nervous, uncomfortable and right now, I feel as if I have just put everyone on this forum off replying to my posts, forever.
Polly, I used to play tennis too, and basketball, sh*** at both, but, it felt good when I could do overhand serves correctly, regularly, or when I could hit a 3-point shot in basketball without it always being a fluke, I gave both up, tennis because it was very frustrating due to my height at the time, and basketball because I tore the ligament in my knee, which was a pity, because at the time I had got into a routine of quite alot of pushups each night, there you go, that was something else that felt good, keeping up a rather pointless routine... but now, I don't have any of those things, I didn't like basketball that much because I were boring around the people I played with, and I can't go back to it, nor do I have the inclination to.
Right now I like to buy clothes and read, none of those are rewarding though, buying clothes just seems like something that comforts me. The only other thing that I find rewarding is programming
, I've never been very good at it, too stupid, you need a really logical mind for it and in some ways an imagination too, I have neither.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, everything I do, it makes me feel bad, when I code, I think of how crap I am at it and how stupid I am, when I read, I say to myself that it is just escapism from my sad life, which really breaks the immersion.
Sorry, I'm droning on here, I really shouldn't have said any of this...