by BruceLeeroy » Wed Jan 27, 2021 5:06 am
5 month update:
Still absolutely no desire to smoke up at all. Enjoying my sobriety from weed to the fullest. Sounds corny but it's true. Have remained off all other street drugs throughout this process as well.
Had three "using" dreams. The third time was brownies that I made myself and couldn't resist. Was feeling high inside the dreams and woke up high. Was angry at myself each time for getting high again, which I didn't actually do thankfully.
Need to visit the forums much less frequently now. Was in the forums daily in the first two-three months desperately reading every thread I could on PAWS, symptoms, and success stories. Now there's no more need for constant support.
No more lazy, taking my brain "off the hook" feeling in the back of my head. Grateful to always feel like my mind is on the balls of its feet ready to prance at any given moment, and no longer backed on its heels. Currently reading a book about wit and snappy comebacks which is a revelation lol.
No more lazy eyes floating around. I can catch my to eyes wanting to do this especially when I stare at something because they were so used to doing it before.
Learning to accept emotions from situations I can't change is currently the biggest mental challenge. But anxiety, depression, and my emotional reaction to them are much less intense now. Not sure where the baseline is anymore as I smoked up for twenty years. But it's lessening every day.
Still occasionally grinding teeth, but much less often, maybe once every few days versus multiple times a night as it was in the first two-three months.
Still have strong heart palpitations especially after a night of drinking, but much shorter in duration. Mjch less powerful as in the first 3 months, but still there.
Libido still up and down.
Consistently getting 5 straight hours of sleep. Hoping to get this number to 7-8 hours eventually. Can fall asleep much faster now, too, usually within first 15 min of going to bed (and putting away my phone). And can fall back asleep for a few more hours fairly easily.
Can stay up much later now like before without getting super heavy-eyed around 9-10pm like last month.
Having a much fuller sense of sleep and deep, positive dreams now most nights. I can remember the dreams when I wake up and sometimes they linger around for much longer. DREAMING IS A GAME CHANGER. When I was high and didn't dream, or at least didn't remember my dreams, it felt like I just methodically closed my eyes every night and then reopened them moments later in the morning -- not really feeling rested at all. Now, with the dreams, it feels like sleeping is another function of my night where I then wake up feeling complete and re-energized. Even with less hours of sleep, I still feel much more recharged afterwards versus when I was high with more hours of sleep.
Had small bladder issues and had to get up in the middle of the night to pee. Affected during the day, too. Drinking anything would result in having to use the bathroom almost immediately. Very annoying. Lasted about two weeks.
First straight 8 hour sleep on Fri morn, Jan 22 (from 4-5 hours previous). Had deep dreams. Bladder issue also gone and back to normal (lasted for a couple weeks, gone by last week of 5th month). Bladder got better a couple nights before, maybe this led to ability to sleep all night long now. (Update, only night of 8 hour sleep so far.)
Overall, it feels like PAWS is down to 30-40% of what it was in the first three months.