actually, these discussions here and my own investigations have recently led me to have several sessions with a hypnotist to help solve some personal issues. i am pleased with the results and am considering continuing to investigate self hypnosis on my own.
Awesome, glad to hear.
according to the paper i linked, one of the main things that makes a highly hypnotiziable subject is their willingness to believe that voluntary acts are involuntary.
It's worth noting that it's often not an explicit choice by the person being hypnotized. If someone breaks down your door and threatens you with an axe, would you consider your fear response to be "voluntary"? If you were to know that the axe wielding madman only axes up people who are afraid, would you simply choose not to fear?
The "voluntariness" of actions isn't simply "it's your brain doing it, so it's your choice by definition". In order for something to feel "voluntary", you have to be able to track your brains decision making process well enough to stay on top of it and redirect things when it feels like the right thing to you. People can give this up willingly (e.g. "Imagine that you're no longer imagining"), but people will often lose track of this without trying to -- both in context of "hypnosis" and in context of "axe wielding madman that only axes up scared people".
i do find it interesting that you have no issue with putting people in states that you yourself are adverse to being in. this is of course no reflection on you but my own personality would have major trouble doing so.
Actually, I'm closer to you on this one than you'd think. It has definitely been a real obstacle for me. I have "overruled" that objection in the past when I felt like it made sense to, but the incongruence there was definitely a difficulty.
These days I basically don't help put people in states that I would object to if I were in their shoes. Partially this is about being better at understanding and empathizing with their desires for things and states that "aren't for me", but also in large part it is about going about things in ways that work well with people like my past self.
This becomes interesting when their perspective and position is vastly different than mine. For example, I've had a few clients who wanted me to hypnotize them to forget a traumatic set of events, and it was quite an exercise for my brain because I couldn't just say "well *I* sure wouldn't do that and don't recommend it, but okay!", but neither could I just go about things the way *I* would be comfortable with if I were in their shoes with my personality and knowledge/beliefs, because they did not share them and wouldn't be open to that. It ends up becoming an exercise of "what would it take for me to accept that this is the right thing for them, and is something that I can and would accept if I were to be in their shoes?", and then finding out if it's my mind that changes (in which case I hypnotize them and give them what they asked for) or theirs (in which case they realize why it might not be in their best interest, and decide to go about things differently).
It's not really a binary "I was right" or "they were right" thing, as the merging of the two perspectives gives a lot of insight about exactly *how* to hypnotize them to forget, or what exactly to do instead.