by Kasper » Wed May 30, 2018 2:09 am
If shes cute and not your blood then I don't see a problem. If she is indeed attracted to you then I say go for it. She will likely grow out of it if she finds another love interest. If you decide to take her then you both need to have a serious talk about the future. One other thing is she very well may have been abused, in this instance you would be helping her a great deal. Some people who have been abused are able to find a lover and let their lover "abuse" them. Its in this way she is able to take control of what has happened to her. She can replace the memory of her father taking advantage of her with you taking her. Its like intentional Stockholm syndrome. This also over stimulates which will saturate and make the original abuse seem normal or not so devastating. Probably the worst part of abuse is not of being used but A) being used by someone who does not deserve you, and B) being thrown out like garbage and treated like sh**. Making decisions at 10 and at 18 are no different, there is ALWAYS plenty to regret and far worse mistakes than being taken advantage of by someone you love and who loves you back, Im talking about you being with her.