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Thanks Jessica Puppy, I hadn't noticed the date of the original post!

I've read this story before. The OP has either posted it on UF before, or on another forum. Hmm...

The title of your post alone prompted me to think of someone I know who employs a false narrative to make sense of his situation and avoid taking responsibility for it. He posts regularly on sites for 'victims', constantly reinforcing his delusions of victimhood and ensuring he never has to face the...

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That's lovely to hear Fafafooey; I wish you and your wife all the best!

Hello Lollo927, Anger and or irritation are unpleasant feelings, but you already know that! I've been trying to think of some simple strategies to help you. This gets said all the time, but exercise really is a great "leveler." Maybe an "aggressive" type of exercise like boxing? ...

Hi Fafafooey, Richard and Laureat have given good advice here. I do understand that sometimes familial relationships can have way too much impact on someone for way too long. So i hope you can overcome this issue sooner rather than later. When people work hard, whether in a "job" or in oth...

[quote="bert_ernie"]well that judgement from family sounds like it could be a big part of it. & there could be other less verbal signals that you picked up from there or society. Fafafooey, if judgement from family or society at large is the reason for your embarrassment, enjoy your vi...

Hi JR84, A group conversation has some significant differences to a one-on-one. The whole dynamic is different. When talking in a group, it's easier to 'blend in', and you're not under pressure to make a comment; if you don't someone else will. So i think you're feeling pressured in one-on-one conve...

Hello again Katarn,

I still think you might be trying too hard, and you are definitely over-thinking. And in your over-thinking, there's a tendency to always see things negatively. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy could be helpful............If you were willing, that is....

Veronicaskold, I'm pleased you realise that suicide is not the answer. Notwithstanding your "disorders and health problems", I don't understand why you would ask an online forum for answers, instead of getting straight to a doctor. Having acknowledged that suicide isn't the answer, please ...

Hello Edwinburt I don't think it's advisable to buy any drug Online. If you need it and it's been prescribed for you, you need to make room for it in your budget. Valium is usually only prescribed for short-term use, so you shouldn't be "out of pocket" for too long. Also, there generic alt...

Hey Fafafooey Both Richard@DecisionSkills and Cpt Yossarian have given you great advice! There is absolutely nothing wrong with anyone of any age enjoying video games. No need for embarrassment. Really. (Am assuming you're not a gambling addict, losing money. That'd be a whole different story.) You ...

Hi Katarn, I'm sorry you are having difficulties. I believe that the fact that you are posting here on the forum means you know that resolution of your issues lies with you; i.e. you accept, on some level at least, the problem lies with you. I wonder if perhaps you are trying too hard with your frie...