daughtersask wrote:I hope they will get back together and never separate again.
Because, regardless of their feelings or the struggles and emotions they actually experience, it will make you feel good.
The above is very normal for all sorts of decisions. We try to impart our values and what makes us feel good onto others. People want “the best” for those they love. The problem, is that we often substitute what feels best for us as equally feeling best for them. If we feel good and are happy, so should they. If we feel bad, so should they.
You should not let what your parents decide impact your happiness. If they marry, divorce, marry, divorce, marry, divorce, you should not allow their decisions to define what makes you happy or sad.
Everyday I see people make decisions that I would not make, but in almost every case I support them and am happy for them. It makes me happy if they are happy, regardless of what I think is correct or better.
Never let others define your happiness.