philzl wrote:I see no point trying to pursue my first relationship at this stage of my life
Candid wrote:philzl wrote:I see no point trying to pursue my first relationship at this stage of my life
At 29?
Plenty of men marry for the first time in their 40s and 50s. There's no biological clock for the male of the species.
philzl wrote: What I want to know and don't understand is why do I feel this way if I don't want to date.
philzl wrote: Can it be that on a subconscious level I'm somehow trying to "fill" something that's missing although not wanting it when thinking rationally?
Candid wrote:philzl wrote:I see no point trying to pursue my first relationship at this stage of my life
At 29?
Plenty of men marry for the first time in their 40s and 50s. There's no biological clock for the male of the species.
And sexist. Coz there's really no pressure for guys to settle down & have kids before their 40s, yeh right. And all you guys are gonna have plenty of energy and libido and mating opportunities in your 50s and 60s too, real prime specimens just what young fertile females look for (in our society). Hmm I don't think so. What really happens is that people (women and men) hook up with broadly similar aged relationship partners no matter how old they are. Nothing to do with biological clock differences. Plenty of women marry for the first time in their 40s and 50s too. That's if people bother to get married at all these days.theforsaken wrote:Candid wrote:At 29?
Plenty of men marry for the first time in their 40s and 50s. There's no biological clock for the male of the species.
That sounds very... bitter.. Lol. He didn't mean the biological clock, it's not that his time's up, its that he feels like it's hopeless/pointless at this point. I've been there too. Hell I'd probably still feel that way if I hadn't met my current partner.