My girlfriend has a child with her ex and the child is now dying from terninal cancer.
So I just want to start with that I understand that this is the worst thing that can happen to any mother and is just out right crewl having to watch your child die right in front of you.
We have a really good relationship and we are deeply in love. From the start of our relationship her child was not well but not terminal. We have been together for one year now and she is done with her ex, no feelings at all just a mutal relationship for the child.
Now that the child is dying she has been staying at the hospital with the child whitch is a long flight away from home where I work and life. Her ex now lives with her at the unit to be with the child at the hospital(conpletely understandable).
I do conpletely trust my parte which makes her even more special and I feel bad to even start thinking about my self in a situation like this, I can only imagine what she goes through but it is starting to eat me up because I love her so much and all I hear Is what her, her ex and the child have been up to. We where supposed to live together and we had/have big plans but now it is all upside down.
I will all ways be there for her but knowing that this might go an on for a long time is taking it's toll on me and I don't want to bother with this because I don't want to add to her all ready big griefe.
What made it worse for me was that I have been told that when they come back, she decided to do the right thing by the father and move in together so they both can be close to the child.
She did tell me though that I am still her life partner and there is nothing between her and the ex.
I don't think I will be able to life there with her and her ex but I also can't Denie for him to be close to his daughter. So I am lost in a difficult situation and need some serious advice