calmy12 wrote: Let me repeat this once more time...
And let me repeat one or time...YES they do! Does Dave want to take over your job? Is that why his attitude has changed? Does Dave want your overtime hours?
But you and I can go back and forth over this issue all you want. You can deny, you can think you have hidden your more than a year long lust for Dave so well that no one knows and psychologically it is a good coping mechanism for you to maintain that belief. If anyone ever knew, how embarrassing, right? And if they knew, you would know about it, right? The same way you knew about all the "nasty" things being said behind your back. Oh, but you didn't know and still don't know all the things they are saying. You don't hear all the whispers.
calmy12 wrote:So you're telling me that you don't mind people who act nice to your face and when your back is turned away, they bitch around you?
No calmy, I don't mind, because I am an adult. The same as you, I don't know all the things people say behind my back, I don't hear all the whispers. People talk behind my back all the time and guess what, I don't friggin care! It is called work. Some people like me, some people don't like me. I like some people, I don't like other people. It is life. If you can name me a single corporation or even a single family where discussions sometimes do not take place regarding others without their knowledge let me know.
Bottom line, it is not important what others say behind your back. What matters is how you handle the situation. And you are handling it by playing the role of the victim. Not talking to co-workers or not responding to your "friend" is acting like a child that is sulking in the corner. Grow up.