Noise and anxiety

Postby Cams » Thu Jan 29, 2004 6:22 pm

Hi

Recently new people moved into the flat below ours after it was empty for some time. I like peace and quiet and have been dogged (it feels!) over years of living in rented places by noisy and inconsiderate neighbours so I have a very low tolerance to noise now.

They aren't majorly loud but the base is audible when the TV is on or when I'm sitting here (can hear it right now). It kind of feels like it's taking over my head, even when I'm out of the house. I definitely have a lot of emotional baggage when it comes to noise, going back to my sister playing music deliberately to irritate me years ago at home. We haven't spoken to them yet and I feel angry that I am yet again in the role of the "boring sensitive" person who can't just block it out!

As well as having a word I'm also considering hypnotherapy to kind of release the baggage from the noise. Is this possible? Anyone else got any feedback/suggestions/similar experiences? I hate feeling this edgy/angry and helpless especially as I work from home too.

Cheers

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Postby peachey » Fri Jan 30, 2004 10:30 am

yeah

I have at times ended up living beneath someone who seems to spend their entire evening pacing up and down the room and playing the same song over and over again

you could always attempt to counteract their noise by making a lot of noise of your own

maybe they will think differently then
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Postby JoeBrewer » Fri Jan 30, 2004 11:11 am

Hi there Cams

Hypnotherapy can definately help if you have memories that need to be "calmed down".

Have you looked at this page: http://www.panic-attacks.co.uk/panic.html - there is lots of quality information to help anderstand why we get anxious in different situations.

Also, I wonder if you have tried to talk to your neighbours about the level of noise?

Hope some of this helps

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Postby Marylin » Sun Feb 08, 2004 10:01 pm

Hi Cams

Am sorry to hear of your problems concerning noise. I recently had a problem with a noisy neighbour and I well understand the detrimental effects that noise can have on one's life, especially if you work from home and need peace and quiet in which to concentrate.

Tolerance levels concerning noise vary from person to person. However, it is a fact that noise is becoming a common problem these days and complaints about noise are on the increase. People frequently report feeling angry when they are subjected to unwanted noise and it is also possible for a person to develop a sensitivity to noise as a result of being subjected to noise over a period of time.

Since the noise is the source of the problem, it would certainly be worth having a polite word with your neighbour since people often don't realise that they can be heard by their adjoining neighbours. This particularly applies when people have just moved in and are not familiar with the building in terms of sound transmission.

I do hope your situation improves soon, if it hasn't already.

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