sad over a hopless crush

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Postby calmy12 » Wed Jun 04, 2014 8:07 am

All this time, I feel like a fool for having hopes that DC likes me.
He doesn't like me at all.
I feel so sad. I don't know how to let go of this crush and it's making me miserable.
Today, I asked him for his advise on how to send parts to other country. He didn't help me at all. He only vaguely explain it to me. And that was it.
Later, I saw him bumping into his wife, and he rushed to her helping her carrying baggages and they both chatted like they were enjoying each other company.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Fri Jun 06, 2014 1:19 pm

Calmy, it has been over a year now. I can empathize with any person that is struggling, but find another job, seek therapy. Plenty of people in this forum have given you advice. Nothing changes. I understand change is not easy, it is hard, I get that, but posting your woes in this forum is not helping you, in fact it may be counter productive. You posting may give you some sort of temporary relief which is not what you need. You need to face yourself, stop hiding from yourself. Go seek professional help.
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Postby gr8fulwoman » Sun Jun 08, 2014 9:34 pm

Calmly, I would love to see a man give his full attention, his full adoration, to YOU!
That can happen if you put your emotional self back on the market again. I don't doubt that you like your co-worker, and since he is taken, that is your cue to move on. If you cannot, that is not about the co-worker....it is about YOU.

You deserve to love and be loved. Now is the perfect time to move on, and make a life for yourself.
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