Why do people purposefully try to piss you off?

Postby [email protected] » Thu Nov 06, 2014 10:52 am

Some people purposely try to piss you off and it makes no sense. It's like they don't like you or something but act very nice at other times. Any thoughts?
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Thu Nov 06, 2014 11:04 am

It could be;

-1- they do not realize they are trying to piss you off.
-2- they realize, because you did something they believe merits trying to piss you off.
-3- they realize, because it provides them a reward of some kind, e.g. establishes control, boosts their ego, relieves tension they may have, etc.
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Postby JuliusFawcett » Sun Nov 09, 2014 1:33 pm

It's just egoic behaviour trying to push you below them
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Postby Beloved » Sun Nov 09, 2014 3:11 pm

[email protected] wrote:Some people purposely try to piss you off and it makes no sense. It's like they don't like you or something but act very nice at other times. Any thoughts?

Post some examples.
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