by Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue Aug 21, 2018 2:47 pm
What is your fear?
Ask her out...or don't ask her out. What is the absolute worst outcome? You have to have some fantasy or imagined outcome that you fear.
Based on your previous threads it seems like you need to spend some time working on yourself. Instead, after only a month of being out of a year long relationship you are focused on finding and jumping into a new relationship. This might be fine if you were confident and knew what you wanted in life, but you hold doubts. You doubt who you are and what you want. In fact, you hold such doubts that you question yourself and fear the simple act of asking this new person out.
Just my opinion, but I think you are avoiding the process of reflecting and improving yourself. Instead of getting out of a year long relationship and taking time to confront and learn about yourself, you are instead turning your energies outward. You need to focus your time and energy inward. Where are you weak, what do you need to improve, what are your goals, what do you want to achieve? Get a plan together, get yourself together, and then you will no longer need to ask if you should ask her out.