My ex and I had a relationship of just under a year and he broke up with me a couple of months back.
I’m well past the ‘wanting to get back together with him’ and ‘crying multiple times a day’ stage. I don’t want to get back together with him as we were hideously incompatible and he had very little ambition in life. I’m actually planning a future for myself now that I’m single; I know for a fact I wouldn’t be doing this if we were still a couple.
I’ve figured out that it’s not *him* that I miss, it’s ‘having a boyfriend’ that I miss.
I’ve found some information that very strongly suggests that he may have a new girlfriend, and it’s made me sick to my stomach.
Im really confused about why I’m so upset. After all, he was really immature and not someone I could see myself being with in the long term. I’ve blocked him from social media and I’m avoiding Facebook/Instagram because I don’t want to find out further information about him. Can anyone shed some light on this?