by laureat » Sun Apr 26, 2015 10:18 pm
first of all you should focus on yourself
you have to have some confidence that you can do good with or without her,
you don't want to feel too much depended, you don't want to feel too much on leash
feel free, and trust yourself that you can do good , life can be beautiful
second, we cannot predict what is exactly your girl want
maybe she just want a brake, and we have to respect that ,
maybe she is only on some weird confusion and really just need some time
now I don't know about that, there is a lot what we can predict about this
but the focus should not be on this, the focus should be on options that we have to choose
i think you should not be " waiting " psychologically
you can wait physical, but do not wait psychologically
there is no need to keep ALERT, to keep waiting ,
you should focus on having some good time, relaxation and other
so there is no need to wait, but you keep living,and time comes out to understand what is happening
now expectations that sometimes we have from others may not be correct
there have been people i thought we will have future together, but it did not happen
now I am not tell you to not expect any positive results
i am just telling you we should be more reasonable with our expectations
yes, we can do our best to get what we want
but there is no need to become disappointed
in life, we keep living, we keep having good times, and keep fighting to get what we want
today you want this girl, tomorrow who knows, maybe you get her
tomorrow maybe you may want a different girl, and you get her