iUsedATempEmail wrote: Where can you draw the line?
I told my parents and they listened. That is all. Both my parents are busy with their work so they are do not have time. My mother always told me to get away if something like this happened when I was younger.
It is the parents job to teach a child where, when, and how to draw the line.
Note, I’m not blaming your parents. I’m only pointing out the possibility that you never learned. It is not uncommon. Plenty of parents, for one reason or another, fail to teach a child many things, including teaching them how to navigate violence.
That your mother always told you to “get away” shows a lack of knowledge on her part. Again, not placing blame. I’m just pointing out that your mother probably used the “get away” strategy in her life and luckily for her it worked. She had no reason to teach you anything different.
Moving forward, learn how and when to be violent. Study the topic. Join a club to learn a martial art. It will give you a different perspective.