I have a best friend. We been friends few years now. At first we were very close. We both were happy being with each other, we almost spend every day together. I really was amaze what beautiful person she was. She was generous, comforting, funny. I could easily understand her. We share everything with each other.
She had few hard relationships, but I was there for her. I tried to help her. I wanted her to be happy. But sometimes I felt like I was only one who is trying to support her in life. But I was okay by myself most of the times, I was used to being alone, so I didn't make a big problem of that.
But somehow recently we started to fight a lot. She found a boyfriend, I though she will finally be happy and I thought that would help our friendship, because is easier to share happiness, when u are happy in your life. But she doesn't look happy anymore with me. And when she is with him, she becomes like another person, she doesn't treat me like she does when we are together. She is all stressed(she always was, but it didn't seem to being effecting her that much). Like I mention before, we started to fight a lot, we don't agree on simple stuff like what should we eat and we become grumpy at those times, so we can't enjoy each other company. We don't talk about it, we pretend that it didn't happened.
It bothers me. I want everything to be okay, but I don't know how to talk with her. What to say her. How to make everything okay. We never had any big problems with each other. So It's hard for me to deal with things like this.
I want some suggestions, how to maybe understand her better or how to make everything fine again.
Thanks for all answers!