Guess what? wrote:I felt like she deleted me cause she get offended from the fact i disappeared.
And yet...
Guess what? wrote:I gave her my time, my patience, gifts, dinners, cuddles, etc.
You also "disappeared" at some point, right? Might that have been in any way manipulative?
Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:... maybe what you see as being all sweet and cuddly she sees as obnoxious.
If I had to guess, some women might even see you as borderline stalking.
I'm going for the former. You don't seem to have a problem persuading women to spend time with you, so this isn't about your appearance. It's about what you have in your head. Gifts, dinners and even cuddles won't win fair lady as long as it's your belief that it should lead to sex. There are plenty of women who'll have sex with you for half a lager, but clearly that's not the kind of woman you're pursuing.
If you want a car, any car, you might buy a bomb because you've got the cash in your back pocket. You'll feel good about your bargain for a while, even though the driver's door doesn't lock and every man Jack can borrow it any time you're not looking. So what? When it lets you down, as it surely will sooner rather than later, you simply dump it and buy another.
Or you can be patient, save for the car you really want, one that's reliable in every way.
You say you gave this woman your patience, yet your posts show that what you want and expect is sex. Patience isn't something you can give, it's something you have. Most women are alert (we have to be) to men who shower gifts and compliments while their tongues are hanging out for the payoff. Do you imagine she didn't know that was what you wanted? Women enjoy sex as much as men do; in fact there's scientific proof that the female orgasm is 30 times more powerful than the male's.
And you gave her your time? Seriously? Including this as some kind of gift marks you as a time-server -- again, just hanging on for payday.
Thinking you're owed something in return for gifts and dinners is insulting, and when a woman feels insulted she shuts down.
How would you feel about a woman you barely know buying you dinner, giving you a box of chocolates, then expecting to get her hands all over you for a "cuddle"?
My guess is she clocked your accelerated breathing and heart rate during these cuddles. If it isn't the man she wants, or she doesn't want him yet, a decent woman with an instinct for self-preservation won't waste any more of his time or her own. Her lock is secure, and she's not about to hand the key to anyone who clearly doesn't understand how cars work.